My natural beauty regimen

A couple of years ago, I began experimenting with how to replace my conventional store-bought beauty products with simple, natural, and often homemade alternatives.  Some experiments worked well from the beginning and others took several tries and several months to get right.  I'm still learning which products work well for which function, but I've figured out several natural beauty and self-care routines.

I would love to share with you my complete natural beauty regimen:

First, DIET trumps all.  Ever since the day I was asked to prom, I used a prescription benzoyl peroxide cream to deal with my acne, but several years later, I was tired of trying to find a way to get it in Uganda, so I went off the prescription and tried a plethora of other methods.  My acne was persistent.  It was cycstic and deep and embarrassing and it hurt.  I was so over it, and I lamented about it upon my first visit to a nutritionist.  She had me drastically change my diet to what we all know we would do - cut out processed grains, reduce my dairy and sugar intake, and eat more fresh fruits and veggies. My face hasn't been the same since and I often get compliments on my skin!  Of course, a healthy diet improves your life and your looks in many other ways.  Beauty truly starts from the inside.

Second, learn to love your looks. "If tomorrow, women woke up and decided they really liked their bodies, just think how many industries would go out of business."                                               – Dr. Gail Dines

Face care: I used to wash my face twice a day and I had quite the collection of washes, creams, acne spot fighters, and the like.  But now with a much better diet, I simply wipe a cotton ball doused in witch hazel on my face as an astringent, followed up by a few drops of jojoba oil as a moisturizer.  Just last week, I was told my face had a glow!

Hair care: I've shared my low-maintenance, natural hair care routine before.  The "no poo" method of baking soda and apple cider vinegar has worked quite well for me for nearly 2 years now!

Hair styling: I have naturally wavy hair and now, instead of using mousse and gels to encourage those beach waves and discourage the frizz, I simply put a tablespoon of epsom salt into a spray bottle and spritz my hair when it's still damp.  Use scented epsom salts for a bonus.  I prefer chamomile!

Deodorant:  Along with my prescription face creams, I also went through middle school and high school with a strong prescription deodorant.  It may have saved me some embarrassment during those awkward years, but the once-weekly application burned the hell out of my armpits and probably didn't do me any favors in my long-term health.  After a failed attempt at making my own deodorant, I now just spray on some magnesium oil and it does the trick just fine!  And the absorption of extra magnesium is a bonus!

Skin care: I wash with any natural soap that suits my fancy, usually one I come across in my travels that is handmade. There are many.  I sudz up with the natural loofahs that are grown in Uganda then ditch the lotion in favor of the very beneficial pure shea butter, also grown and made in Uganda.  The natural skin care options here are lovely.

Mole removal: I've successfully used the apple cider vinegar method in removing unwanted moles, but please check with your doctor first!  You'll want to be sure there are no cancerous cells.

Bath time: I soak in a tub with epsom salts, which are known to help relieve aches and pains, as well as give some extra magnesium absorption.

Lip care:  With a few ingredients, I now make my own homemade lip balm.

Do you have any natural self-care regimens you have used successfully?

July reads

A few great reads I came across in the month of July:

The mystery of peace is located in the nature of relationships developed with those most feared.
— John Paul Lederach

I'm currently reading a book called The Moral Imagination about "the art and soul of peace."  The author, a man who has worked to build peace all around the world, talks about the importance of relationships, authenticity, creativity, and knowing we are connected when it comes to establishing peace in places of violence.  I find it incredibly inspiring.

Because you won't hear about this on the news, here is a beautiful moment in the wake of the tragic Chatanooga shooting.

I work with young women aspiring to be leaders in their own contexts and often find it is the most personal, deeply entrenched issues that hold them back from their dreams.  This was a nice read, encompassing how we can naively prevent our daughters (and it mentions a thing or two about sons) from living into who they can truly be. Are You Holding Your own Daughter Back? 5 Ways to Raise Girls to be Leaders

Should universities go beyond academics and also teach us How to Live Wisely? Harvard thinks so.

A Weekend at Sipi Falls

Since Leo has come along, it's not easy for Eric and I to find time to simply be together.  When we do have time, we tend to primarily focus on the tasks that have been neglected in favor of our son's needs.  So this year, for our 3rd anniversary, we packed up the car and took our first family vacation to Sipi Falls in Eastern Uganda.

I hadn't been to this place for several years and it was so lovely to spend the weekend here with nothing to do except be together.  Sipi Falls consists of three separate waterfalls on the side of Mount Elgon, bordering Kenya.  We explored the first two falls on a long hike and the last and greatest one, we gazed at as the sun set.  We were spoiled at Sipi River Lodge - by far the lodge with the most to offer - with great food, home-roasted and locally-grown coffee, a cozy cabin, a friendly guide, and exclusive access to the second waterfall roaring just outside our window.

This is truly a place of endless beauty and I am so grateful for the short time we were able to take advantage of this lush landscape.

This I know to be true

Pregnancy is known to draw women deeply within, to open her to all kinds of emotions and consciousness she didn't even know she had.  There was a day last December when I faced a deep and dark side of myself.  I wrote down what I could comprehend, and I just came across that writing in my journal.  I remember feeling so dark and heavy at the time, but now re-reading what I wrote, it seems hopeful and beautiful. I love how the dark and the light dance together.

This was me on December 20, 2014.  This was one point in my journey and in my own process of becoming.

20 December 2014

This I know to be true:
We are all connected.  All of humanity is intertwined with each other.  One cannot stand alone.  It is impossible  Everything we do, every action we take, every thought we have has both been affected by countless others and will affect countless others.

Even someone who has decided to live according to self-interest will soon see that the happiness of others directly affects his/her own happiness.  Our struggles as well as our joys are tied together, the world over.  In the end, my liberation, my joy is tied to that of every other being.  This I know to be true.

I don't know if there is a god or what the spiritual world is made of.  I don't know how much we humans have convinced ourselves of what we wish to believe.  I don't know if there is anything after this life or even if there is any purpose to our individual lives and to our collective existence.

I have questioned it all and I doubt all of the answers I have found.  I have felt the overwhelming darkness that comes with the shattering of all I wish to be true, and I have wanted to escape this world for a peaceful nothingness.

Most Truth eludes me.  I cannot grasp it and I will never know it.  But now, I know that even if our lives have no eternal meaning, even if the soul is a figment of our imagination, and even if purpose is laughable, our happiness is still tied together  Our enjoyment of life and our very humanity is bound as one.  What benefits the other benefits me in the end.

And I believe this binding of all of humanity to one another is the potential vessel of love.  If there is a god, God is this network that binds us.  We are bound either by love and goodness in each and every action and thought, or we are bound by hurt, by harm to each other, to the environment, to ourselves.  That love/goodness and that harm/hurt is what most people think of as God.  It is simply the network, the binds, the connections that tie us all to one another and is a conduit for energy to pass through - and that energy is helpful for harmful, sometimes a strange combination of both, and it flows continuously through this network, touching all things.  Every action affect more than we can imagine and eventually comes back to ourselves.

We are one.  We are connected.  In all ways.  This I know to be true.

Drying herbs

I've been away from my own home for so long this year and I missed making food from what I can grow on our small piece of land or buy fresh at the local markets. 

When i came back, my herb garden was definitely in need of some attention.  Some of my herbs had been crowded out by weeds, some had gotten spindly for lack of pruning, but others had absolutely exploded.  With these, it was the perfect opportunity to harvest a little crop and dry the herbs for future use.  There were other bundles of herbs I had hung to dry before I left and they were now finished and ready to use.

I simply cut off trimmings of my herbs, wash them thoroughly, tie the ends together with a rubber band, and hang them at the top of one of our cabinets, where it is cool and they get good air circulation.  When they are dry and brittle, I take the leaves off the stems, crush them into smaller pieces, and place them in containers until I need them in a recipe.

It's always a lovely feeling to cook with something I grew and processed myself, and drying herbs is such a simple way to do that.

Fresh thyme, rosemary, oregano, and lavender

Dried thyme, rosemary, oregano, and lavendar

Herbs hanging to dry

Dried oregano and sage

Sage bundle

P.S. My husband and I have an ongoing argument about how to pronounce "herb."  Is the "H" silent or not?