Camping at the Karamajong Cattle Kraal

After enjoying a New Years’ lunch in a Karamajong village, our guide, Thomas, took us further off the beaten path. We sat upright and alert in the Landcruiser as he pointed us through an open plain where there was only a small path made by cattle - a path that often disappeared, leaving us to guess where it might lead. Thomas used the mountains in the distance to know the direction and we drove along slowly, scared we may pop a tire on one of the many broken stumps scattered around the plain. It was nearly an hour later when we finally saw signs of life - a boy of about 8 years old with a big smile on his face, jogging alongside our car as we found the rest of his companions. We had made it to the cattle kraal, where we would spent the night with the Karamajong men and boys, all who were caring for the treasures of the tribe - the cattle and goats.

We were welcomed upon arrival and introduced to several members of the group, which included boys as young as 5 years old, entrusted with the great responsibility of overseeing their families’ most significant source of wealth. Thomas translated for us as we were shown the herds of livestock and how they had constructed temporary pens for the animals using branches of acacia thorns.

Leo and Pax loved the baby animals, particularly the goats, and lit up in delight when a boy brought one over for them to hold. After a quick look around, we set up our tent and ate a meal, being told that we would soon see the process of making dinner at the Karamajong cattle kraal.

Soon enough, we were called over to a pen where some young men had chosen the animal that would provide the evening’s meal, which would consist of no more than the blood from one of their cattle. While a few of the boys held the cow, another young man knelt with a bow and arrow, attempting to pierce the cow in the neck. It took a few tries and a few different people to properly pierce the vein, and when they finally succeeded, another boy was ready with a pot to collect the flowing blood. When the supply began to dwindle, the cow lay down to recover and one boy whipped the blood with his hand, separating the plasma, and giving it to a dog waiting for its treat. From there, each took their turn drinking their evening meal. As the sun went down, small groups were formed around small fires, and grass mats were laid out as beds. We retired into our tent, falling asleep to the strange, human-like sounds of the goats bleating into the night.

The next morning, we again greeted our hosts and their livestock, watching as some boys collected a breakfast of milk from their goats and cattle. A young man showed us how he brushed his teeth with the branch from the “toothbrush tree.” One boy found Leo and Pax’s favorite goat from the night before and brought it over for them to hold again as Eric and I packed up the rig. We thanked our hosts and said goodbye, driving back through the tricky plains and into the nearest town, where we bid farewell to Thomas and continued on our road trip to our next destination - Soroti town.

Kidepo National Park

Driving into Kidepo National Park, is a treat unto itself. Long before the park entrance, coming in from Kitgum, you feel yourself more silent and reverent at the beauty of the plains and mountains. The landscape of Kidepo (Uganda’s most remote park) is a stunner, and visitors are often rewarded for their long trip to the northeastern corner of Uganda with wonderful wildlife sightings. The last time I was in Kidepo, we saw lions tearing away at a buffalo carcass and I saw more new birds than I could keep track of. It was also a childless trip, with a stay at the park’s fanciest lodge, so clearly this was going to be a different experience.

We pulled into the Uganda Wildlife Authority’s main campsite, thinking we would stay somewhere close to a food source, but the only place to camp was directly by the entrance with neither a view nor privacy. After lunch, a rest, a wee, and making payment, we drove off to compare the more remote campsites and landed on the one said to be frequented by lions, and we settled in, occasionally standing on the large rock that provided a wonderful look-out and gave the boys an exciting place to play with their monster trucks.

We stayed at this campsite for three nights, with the company of some rangers when darkness came and with some friends joining us on our second day. We heard lions roaring from a distance each night and each day we hired a ranger to help us look for them, but we had no luck. We had to make due with stories about lions, told to us by the rangers, who said the lions were occasionally found sleeping in the shade huts set up on the campsite.

When out here in the wilderness with kids, I admit to a constant, background state of anxiety. Many would think it would have something to do with Africa’s top predator potentially looming about, but I trust the guidance from the rangers when it comes to the big game. Instead, I’m often alert to other potential sources of injury - ants nests, thorns, cliffs, lightening storms. At one point, Leo and I stood atop the lookout rock, talking to another visiting couple, when a swarm of bees quickly surrounded us. We ran down the rock and thankfully they didn’t follow us, but my mind started to work out scenarios and options if they had wanted to attack. The most pressing health and safety issue may have been the sun, which shone relentlessly. We enjoyed the crisp evenings when the sun went down and treated ourselves to some marshmallows.

The game sighting were not spectacular this time around in Kidepo, but we left knowing this is part of the safari experience. Out here in the wilderness, nothing is guaranteed and your best option is to be grateful for the beauty that does present itself to you. We still saw elephants, jackals, giraffes, kudu, vultures pecking away at a buffalo carcass, and even a bat hanging in the campsite latrine. And the landscape, of course. That is no small thing.

Aruu Falls

After waking up at Ziwa Rhino Sanctuary, we packed up the rig and opted for the easy breakfast option at Kabalega diner, before hitting the road toward our final destination of Kidepo National Park. We took a short break in Gulu, where we picked up lunch, and took it with us for a picnic at Aruu Falls. The plan was for a short, pleasant lunch with a view before driving on to Kitgum, where we would pitch our tent in the gardens of Acaki Lodge. But, our stay at the falls was extended, simply because they were too inviting not to explore. Leo kept begging to go in the water, but we had not brought any extra clothes down the steep and slippery path to the falls, so I kept telling him no.

He begged to at least put his feet in.

Fine. I agreed. Your feet.

Soon, his pant legs were rolled up and he was in up to his knees. Well, I didn’t want his pants to get wet, so I told him he might as well take them off. Then he was wading in deeper, nearly up to his waist, and his shirt would soon get wet, so off that came, too. Of course, his little brother couldn’t just watch all the fun without joining in and soon we had 2 kids in underwear/diapers and I had my pant legs rolled up, assisting Pax in climbing over the slippery rocks.

We didn’t regret it. The sun was scorching and the water was refreshing. We had more than a scenic view for a picnic. Instead, we had a small, but fun adventure.

While navigating the rock path on the way back to the car, Leo demanded to know when we were coming back.

Ziwa Rhino Sanctuary

Over Christmas 2019, we crammed our Land Cruiser as full as it could be and drove around Kenya for a month, with a 1-year old and 4-year old. It was epic and it was the most exhausting thing I’ve ever done in my life. Only now, Leo was hooked on camping and begged to go again. So, For Christmastime 2020, we lowered our expectations and set off once again, this time staying within Uganda and this time limiting ourselves to only being gone for 2 weeks. This time, however, there was a fresh excitement because we had endured the insanity that was the year of 2020, including the many intense COVID lock-downs in Uganda, which did not allow private citizens to even drive out of our compounds. Uganda was also facing an election where the young musician, Bobi Wine, faced off against long-time President Museveni.

We headed north. Destination: Karamoja. Our first stop along the way was Ziwa Rhino Sanctuary, where many good and excellent people care for and protect a rhino population that they hope one day to re-introduce to Uganda’s national parks after they were nearly poached to extinction. Upon arrival, we were greeted at the campsite by a family of warthogs. We set up camp and the boys explored the site on their bikes, running across a herd of ankole cattle with their epic long horns.

Leo and I then went on a nature walk with a ranger, first spotting some African hoopoe birds playing the grass and showing off their mohawks. The ranger pointed out all kinds of nature facts along the way, but this was not a rhino trek, so we didn’t count on seeing the rhinos. I had been to Ziwa several times before and had the privilege of spending time with the rhinos, so I didn’t think we needed to set out to see them this time. But we were lucky. We came across them in our walk and our ranger took us as close as we could get. These rhinos have a team of rangers with them 24/7 for protection. It was a special treat to see them during this visit.

After the walk, we made dinner with the warthogs for company and roasted marshmallows for dessert. The boys took a dip in their basins for a quick wash, then changed into pjs and we tucked ourselves in to our rooftop tent.

Memories of India: the highs and lows

I love following other travel photography blogs and seeing images from others' experiences of the world, but sometimes I want to get beyond the beautiful pictures and ask, Didn't you have just one flight that was delayed? or Please tell me I'm not the only one who fights with my husband on travels.

The truth is, things go wrong.  It wouldn't be an adventure if it were all perfect images and sunshine, so in the interest of full disclosure, here are a few of the "behind the scenes" moments of our travels in India - the good and the frustrating, both of which I'm sure we'll remember with fondness one day, turning to each other to say, "Remember that time in India when...?"

  • ...upon arrival in Delhi, I picked up a newspaper and read that the airline we were taking to Dehradun just went bankrupt and was no longer operating.
  • ...we found another flight and had to rush to our gate, but I was so exhausted I could hardly stand, so when we got there, I sat down and cried and had you get me some apple juice.  Then, boarding the plane, you looked at me and laughed, with my juice box in one hand, granola bar in the other, pregnant belly sticking out, and tears running down my face.
  • ...a few pairs of my earrings were stolen from my checked bag.
  • ...it was way colder than we expected, so we had to shop for hats, gloves, and more clothes, all of which we slept in.
 
 
  • ...the place where we stayed had a leaking water tank directly over the toilet and thus a flooded bathroom floor at all times, no hot water, a fuse that kept blowing with the space heater, and a missing window pane, so I didn't shower the whole first week and we slept in our hats, gloves, and 2 layers.
  • ...we went with our friends to see the most popular Bollywood movie of all time.
  • ...many of the car rides and the crazy driving made me sick.
  • ...the other place we stayed had no toilet paper, no soap, and no towels, which was not good news after a week of no showering.
  • ...my first shower started out pleasantly steamy and switched to freezing cold just as I had wet my hair and drenched myself.
  • ...you were my pack mule and carried all the bags because my back hurt so badly and I was so tired.
 
 
  • ...I was really excited about the wool sweater I bought, but it had prickly grass interwoven into it everywhere and was way to itchy too wear.
  • ...I thought being 5 months pregnant wouldn't affect my energy level, but days spent walking totally exhausted me and my body hurt all over.
  • ...we thought we could show up at the train station and book tickets to anywhere, so we didn't plan ahead, but almost all the trains were booked.
  • ...we got in a fight over which bus to take to Jaipur and gave each other the silent treatment for 1/2 a day.
  • ...we were tired of Indian food and so excited when we saw a Dominos Pizza and Dunkin' Donuts.
  • ...I kept confronting the men staring at me everywhere we went.
  • ...we fought on Christmas day because you were walking too far in front of me and I was tired of being harassed in the streets.
  • ...we went site-seeing in Jaipur on Christmas Day, but we ended up being the main site, with so many people wanting to take our photo.
  • ...we came home and food poisoning hit us both a day later, so on New Years Eve we went to bed at 9pm because our bodies were in major recovery mode.

And in the further interest of self-deprecating humor, I leave you with selfies gone wrong: