When a woman becomes pregnant in our culture, she's soon told of all the "stuff" that is required to buy for her baby-to-be. It's inevitable, we're told, that our home will become a mess, cluttered with baby gear, toys, and all the necessities our new tiny human must need. Swings, pack-and-plays, and wipes warmers are all seen as "musts" for this coming babe.
But I live in Uganda and although I certainly could have all that "stuff" if I wanted it, I have learned from Ugandan mothers that babies actually need very little and the "musts" are much fewer than my American consumer culture insists upon. After all, raising a baby is a practice that is literally as old as humankind and most of these gadgets have only be introduced in our generation. Raising a baby in Uganda has given me the gift of insight into the beauty of simplicity, but even I feel like I've overdone it sometimes. In one example, we transformed our guest room into a room for the coming baby months before his arrival, complete with a crib (you must have a crib, right?). But a separate room for a baby is nearly unheard of in Uganda and now I know why. It truly is not a "must." Our crib remains practically untouched, since Leo continues to sleep between the two of us, so we mainly use his room for diaper changes and storing his clothes and toys, which still feels excessive sometimes. Even so, I had fun decorating it!
I chose carefully what I would bring into our lives when Leo arrived. I didn't want much, and what we did choose to add, I wanted to be beautiful and practical. I dread clutter and love my home's aesthetic, so I wanted products that would add to the decor in my home. I couldn't always find what I wanted, which is one reason I started my own small business called Baby Lionheart, which sources beautiful handmade baby products from Uganda, all made from natural and locally-sourced materials. Like other products in my life, I also wanted to know where they came from, what they are made from, and who made them.
Below are photos of the products I have carefully chosen to have in Leo's life and in our home.